ABOUT

Thanks for joining me on this journey of writing about my favorite subject: relationships. I am Dr. John De Oca, a Mental-Health Nurse Practitioner residing with my 5lb chihuahua, Autumn, in New Jersey.

I decided to start this blog as I enter this transition of life where I want to prioritize focusing on one of my longest goals: writing. As I have built this career, there have been so many things I have come to learn and notice regarding love, family, friendship and all the people we have in our lives.

That is what I hope you will find here. A shift in perspective. A dispelling of some myths and lies we run around telling ourselves. An end to running around in life on autopilot. I have taken to my social media to do a lot of this work but there’s only so much I can do in an Instagram post.

One fun fact about me is I am a reality tv junkie, especially Bravo. So, I thought to captivate some interest and help me shed some light and educate others I will graciously use the relationships I see unfold on Bravo. Here we can see what some of the ways are we can maneuver around the conflict we are in, how can we increase our awareness, or what we could do better. The intent is not to shame but to help and inspire. Hindsight is always 20-20 but another perspective from a professional can always enlighten us.

So, buckle up and join this ride with me. I invite you to please comment, like, and provide all the feedback you like to get a nice juicy conversation flowing if you are a fan like me or if you find yourself in some of these relationship predicaments. And just maybe some of things I say will resonate and change your life, and that for me, will just be monumental.